Before the conversation ends, he asks for your name and number so the two of you can continue talking over the phone.Just as soon as you thought your prayers have finally been answered, he tells you he'll call you once he drops off the kids..his baby momma's house. So what's a woman to do when she meets a single dad?Women tend to overlook these, because the situation isn't exactly what they thought it would be like. Depending on whether he has full or partial custody of his child, it can severely limit the amount of time he spends on leisure activities.
“For example, if he says he would be willing to change his plans with them to She’s the mother of his children and if they’re both involved in their kids’ lives, she’s not going anywhere.
Meaning YOU, is not going to introduce any ol' person into his child's life. It also made me realize that I wanted to have children of my own one day, and I knew upfront that my partner would be a great dad. By Sujeiry Gonzalez, love guru for 93.9 FM and relationship author. Imagine how difficult it is to be a stepmother — you have to look after his kids, cooperate with their mom and share your man.
That's what's in store for you when you date a guy with kids.
I once had a blossoming relationship go pear-shaped when the new lady in my life, who’d never had children, got in a strop because I was taking too long to show one of my sons how to use a whipper-snipper and we were late for a brunch date.
It was of no consequence whether we were tucking into eggs benedict at 11 or 11.30, but she interpreted my concern for my son as disregard for her.
I saw her irritability as evidence that she was a narcissistic psycho. You wouldn’t want to go out with a man who put you before the needs of his kids.