So I want to share 5 golden techniques for keeping a guy hooked well beyond the first few dates: 1.
Show DESIRE Without Dependence To play it cool, or to not play it cool?
It is clear this is more than the "getting to know you" stage, but it is the "we are taking it slowly" stage. It's a game, and a nasty one, done to many men (and many women, in reverse).
He should at least know that she is quick with others and not him so he knows how to gauge the situation. But he should know since "taking it slow" with him while hiting the fast lane with others indicates no commitment but he will think it is there.
The worst thing you can do at this stage is artificially push things forward by assuming commitment too early, or by showing too much possessiveness, or any other type of premature “girlfriend” behaviour, like checking up on him or trying too hard to be a big part of his life.Say what you want about Patti Stanger, aka Bravo's Millionaire Matchmaker (and you could say a lot — the woman isn't exactly known for being reserved), but the career matchmaker and dating expert knows a thing or two about the language of love.Or, at least, the language of prepping two strangers for an awkward date and hoping they've followed her advice.When a girl goes on a date with a guy, she’d want to see a happy sign that the guy is enjoying himself on the date.And even more so, she’d want to see a big sign that proves that the guy likes her a lot!It's a tough world out there for the single and romantically challenged, and Stanger wields tough love dating advice with an iron fist. They complain about dating, which neutralizes the date and conversation — and isn’t sexy. In that case, what are some of your main pieces of advice for guys and girls, when setting out on a first date?