Even though it’s clear someone is not interested in us, why do we continue to make excuses for that person? Maybe if we just accepted things that men and therapists have told us, we’d have no drama.And with no drama, what would we commiserate with our girlfriends about? But before we go into some deep sociological interpretations, let’s review just some of the truths about dating that many women still refuse to accept.
"A male is assumed to always want to mate with a female, but a good male is more willing to pay the cost of a long courtship in order to claim the prize of mating.When being interviewed by Cosmo, Glamour or Essence magazine, men generally lie.They get into the “what would sound good coming out of my mouth,” when a female editor hovers near.Ladies, if he hasn’t asked you out, taken you out on a date, or asked you to be his girlfriend after months of dating, HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.Men need to make the first move Let me explain one thing.Therefore, it’s wise to take your love life seriously at a younger age, and make smart compromises when you have the most attention from the largest pool of high quality men. “Sex doesn’t keep any man who doesn’t want to be kept. If he isn’t marriage-minded, it makes little difference.” Mostly correct.