And for the life of me, I cant remember who told me such things. It's when it gets to the relationship stage (meaning, more times than not, that you're intimate with this person) that it needs to be cut down to just that one person.
I used to just date one guy at a time and if things didn't work out, I'd have to begin all over again.
In addition, apparently only Americans like to “date around”.Afterall, you need to look around, see what you like, dont like, etc.However, if you want to pursue a sexual relationship or both feel that the potential to deepen the relationship is there, then you should become exclusive. Dating is a numbers game, and if you're not dating a number of people, how are you going to be able to find the right person for you?But you need to realize that there is no divine fiat or immutable natural law that dictates one being better than the other. Decide what sort of relationship you would want if you were John Mayer and every girl in the world were begging for the chance to see you. But regardless, you should know the answer has NO bearing on my feelings towards you. So know what the truth is and represent it wholly and thoughtfully.It is not wrong to want to date and love multiple people at the same time, nor is it wrong to stay in a monogamous relationship. Step one for a successful open relationship is to get that through your head and into your heart. My general philosophy: I do this because I know the world is full of amazing women. The article talks about how the best way to find a meaningful relationship is to find Non-Americans.