In case you needed another reminder about being careful who you agree to meet up with online, a convict accused of running an elaborate, years-long gay dating scam using cellphones smuggled into an Oklahoma state prison was just ordered to fork over nearly 5,000 to his victims, the 34-year-old Sean Siwek was already serving 20 years in the Lawton Correctional Facility for robbery and assault convictions when he concocted a sophisticated scam using illegally obtained cellphones to create fake dating profiles on a “voice-based dating” service.
The name of the specific service has not been reported.
According to prosecutors, Siwek used the phones to connect with unsuspecting straight-identifying men.
He would chat them up, pretending to be a male prostitute looking for sex with guys on the DL.
But I have to give it to him, this guy was by far the most persistent creep I’ve ever dealt with.
We did everything to try and dissuade him – we avoided all eye contact, danced to the other side of the floor, we formed an impenetrable group formation, but he was still buzzing around us, relentlessly offering his drinks.
My heart was beating a little faster as I walked down the hotel hallway.
I had done this plenty of times before, but Mark’s voice had betrayed a different kind of nervous energy than I was accustomed to. I’m often the first trans woman a guy has been with. I like their innocent anxiousness, the relief that washes over them when they see me and realize I’m even more attractive than they hoped.
My realisation of this issue started on a night out with my girlfriend and a few of our friends.
I’m white, passable, easy-going, confident, and a strict bottom—for the most part, I’m just a hot chick they get to have anal sex with. I know how to put them at ease, get them excited, make sure we both have a good time, and inevitably leave them hooked.
I pride myself on being a kind of ambassador to trans sex. What I’m really seeking is affirmation of my womanhood, and this is the most available means of doing it.
When my friends went to the bar he swooped in on me, within seconds he had invited me back to his ‘place’ and had even offered me a bed for the night.
Naturally, my girlfriend came over and we told him that we were in a relationship, and like a true sex-pest, his instant response was “ahh, well I’m alright with a threesome.” As though our relationship was some kind of sexual burden that we were lucky he was willing to put up with.
According to court records, he defrauded a total of six different victims in four different states out of more than 0,000 between October 2010 and August 2012. He then demanded Siwek repay his victims and be placed under extra federal supervision.